So watching the recent episode of "Single Ladies" Which I am absolutely in love with by the way, made a very interesting point. Lisa-Raye's character Keisha was offered 10Gs to sleep with a man. Sooooo her male co-worker points out that some women allow some men to spend money on them prior to sleeping with them oooooor they sleep with a man to get that trip, pair of shoes or whatever. So is it really contradictory to accept money prior to sleeping with them even though you know you are going to do it anyway? Then there is the other point of a man is going to spend but so much before he begins to expect to have sex with you. But is not courting about dating and doesn't dating cost money? Now if you accept the advances knowing that you are not going to do anything with him your fault or his? I think it is a pretty weird situation all the way around if you ask me. But hey what do I know.
Personally, I've never slept with a man expecting anything on monetary value and I rarely ever accept anything from a man regardless. See my reasoning is certain things are meant for certain situation. If we were a couple then doing for each other is ok. But since we are in the beginning stages don't expect anything from me and I wont expect anything from you. But if you just so happen to purchase something for me or I decide to have sex with you then so be it. We are both grown so deal with it and stop judging, analyzing and getting on my nerves about it LMBO! MUAH... GN!
